Will a drug addict give birth to a healthy child? Karmic causes of diseases: why are sick children born? Unfavorable environmental conditions

Pregnancy and drug addiction are two radically different concepts. The first gives life, the second, on the contrary, takes away.

Drug addicts– people with poisoned DNA. But even they are trying to have offspring. The worst thing is that the children of drug addicts are obviously doomed to suffer while still in the womb. Drugs, regardless of the nature of their origin, are toxic products.

Plant-based or synthetic, they all equally negatively affect the functioning of the body. A person who is dependent destroys his body and mind, as well as his social status and living conditions. It is impossible to create a normal family and have a son or daughter in this situation.

A child from a drug addict father or mother acquires a whole list of diseases. In addition, the baby ends up in an unhealthy environment where care and concern for the newborn is not in the first place.

Can drug addicted parents have healthy children?

The baby's health directly depends on mom and dad.

Expectant parents who have a bad habit experience pathological changes in their work:

• central nervous system
• reproductive function
• heart and blood vessels.

The list goes on.

Often, pregnancy does not stop women drug addicts. A cozy home and a healthy baby are not included in the overall life plan of such ladies. Substances consumed by the mother easily enter the blood of the fetus and begin to affect the formation of the unborn little person.

There are stories when the husband is a former drug addict or continues to use drugs.

Such a father passes on the toxins accumulated in the body at the time of conception along with the seminal fluid. It makes no difference whether one parent is a drug addict or both. In any case, the baby will not be born healthy.

Consequences of drug use before and during pregnancy:

1. difficulties with conception and birth;
2. severe course of the entire gestation period;
3. risk of miscarriage;
4. abnormalities in fetal development;
5. death of the baby in the womb.

The prognosis is disappointing, but drug addiction is classified as a treatable disease. If you overcome your desires, you can return to normal life. Former drug addicts can start a family and offspring if they undergo rehabilitation.

Physiological problems of children of drug addicts

Toxic substances included in the drug easily enter the human blood and spread throughout the body. In the womb, the baby is inside the placenta, which protects it from the external environment. But it is not capable of protecting against harmful substances that enter the blood of a pregnant woman.

At this moment, when the organs and systems of the fetus are formed, pathological changes occur.

The most common congenital diseases of children of drug addicts include:

• physiological abnormalities and mutations (underdevelopment of bone tissue, abnormal facial structure, etc.);
• lack of reflexes (sucking, protective, grasping, etc.);
• cardiovascular pathologies (heart disease, hypertension, circulatory disorders, etc.);
• malfunction of the central nervous system (perinatal damage to the central nervous system);
• hereditary drug addiction;
• diagnosis of HIV infection and AIDS.

A child born from a drug-addicted father or mother will be subjected to physical and mental suffering in advance.

Psychological abnormalities

Growing up at different stages includes the acquisition of new abilities and the development of intelligence. In children of drug addicts, health problems leave their mark not only on physical but also psychological development.

Congenital diseases make the baby irritable and restless. Because of this, a problem arises in the perception of information and the general formation of personality. Such children often lag behind their peers in development and do not understand many vital things.

Awareness of difference from others leads to depression, isolation and depression. Mental disorders especially progress in children who continue to be raised by parents who are drug addicts. The baby does not receive the necessary support and treatment. At such moments, moral principles become distorted.

Children from dysfunctional families sooner or later become drug addicts, engage in theft, robbery and prostitution. A person with a similar set of psychological disorders will not be able to adapt to society and lead a normal life.

According to statistics, the fate of drug-addicted children does not last long, and death does not occur from natural causes: suicide, murder, overdose.

The effect of different types of drugs on a newborn

Narcotic drugs have a variety of effects on the body of a pregnant woman.

The main points that fall under the influence of toxic substances are:

• the course of pregnancy and childbirth;
• perinatal fetal development;
• consequences of intrauterine anesthesia in a baby.

The most dangerous drug on the list is Heroin.

If a mother uses this drug, the child is born addicted. A newborn experiences withdrawal symptoms, which are detrimental to a small organism. There is also a high risk of sudden death and respiratory arrest in the infant. If the child survives the first year, then its further development proceeds with pathologies.

Cocaine use during pregnancy affects the fetal cardiovascular system. As a result, the baby develops diseases such as hypertension, lack of blood circulation, and even a possible stroke.

During the gestation period, the effect of toxic drugs leads to disruption of metabolism and oxygen between mother and child. There is a high probability of placental abruption.

Synthetic drugs, such as amphitamine, LSD, desomorphine and others from this group, severely affect a woman’s body. First of all, the drug addict loses a lot of weight, and inflammatory processes occur in the body.

These factors negatively affect the baby's intrauterine growth. Children born to drug addicts are premature, low birth weight, and have abnormalities in physical development. In the most frightening cases, the child dies in the womb. The high price to pay for the habits of parents.

Help for children of drug addicts

The birth of a new person is a joyful event. The most important thing is to place the baby in the right environment.

Children born to drug addicts have several paths:

• Repeat the fate of your parents;
• Become a socially adapted person without bad habits and with a normal lifestyle.

The first option threatens a painful and short-lived existence. A baby with a set of congenital diseases requires special care, treatment and care. In addition to maintaining physical health, the baby needs the help of specialists who will tell you how to behave with such a child, how to prevent him from developing complexes, depression and other mental disorders. An even more important question is that he does not become addicted to drugs.

If the child survives after birth and his physiological indicators improve, then there is a chance that he will grow up to be a normal person.

The most common of them are commented on by our expert, geneticist, candidate of medical sciences Yulia Kotalevskaya.

Myth one. Genetic disease - the result of bad heredity

In fact. Theoretically, every married couple has it. On average it is 5%. In the vast majority of cases, the birth of a child with a genetic abnormality is a completely unpredictable process. A gene defect often occurs spontaneously, from the very first hours of intrauterine life.

In addition, each of us is a hidden carrier on average of five. But in order for this risk to materialize, you need to meet a person who has pathological changes in the same gene. The likelihood of such a meeting is very low.

Myth two. Defective children are born from consanguineous marriages

In fact. Not always. Another thing is that the risk of meeting a person with a similar gene mutation in such a marriage is much higher: the man and woman have a common ancestor. In the language of genetics, this is called the “founder effect,” in which the likelihood of passing pathologically altered genes to offspring increases. That is why such marriages were banned for a long time in different countries of the world.

Myth three. The birth of a sick child is a consequence of drunken conception

In fact. And that's not true. After conception, there is a relatively safe period during which it moves through the internal female genital organs to the site of implantation (attachment) to the wall of the uterus and has no contact with the mother’s blood.

The same cannot be said about the further period of pregnancy, during which a woman should under no circumstances drink alcohol. Especially in the period up to 12 weeks, when all organs and systems are formed in the child.

Myth four. It's all because of taking medications during pregnancy.

In fact. The list of teratogenic drugs that cause gross malformations of the fetus is small. It includes antitumor drugs and a number of antibiotics.

In addition, there are situations when a pregnant woman suffering from some chronic disease (thyroid gland, heart, etc.) simply cannot do without taking certain medications. In medicine, there is a golden rule in this regard: if the benefits of taking a drug outweigh the harm, you can take it during pregnancy.

The same applies to fetal ultrasound, which some pregnant women are so afraid to do. And they often miss a really serious pathology in the unborn child. Many years of obstetric and gynecological practice around the world testify that ultrasound is absolutely harmless for the fetus.

Myth fifth. The birth of a child with a genetic anomaly is a cross for the entire family

In fact. There is a chance to give birth to a healthy child even in those families where there have already been several cases of the birth of a defective child. It all depends on the type of genetic disease. But only a geneticist can calculate this risk. That is why it is so important to know the genealogy and medical history of your family, as well as to examine as thoroughly as possible a sick child already in the family. Accurate knowledge of its diagnosis will help to assess the risk at the planning stage of the next pregnancy and prevent the possibility of a recurrence of the family tragedy.

There are also methods of prenatal (intrauterine) diagnostics, when, by examining amniotic fluid in some diseases, one can say exactly what kind of child a given woman is “carrying” under her heart.

Although many experts are surprised by this picture, drug addicts often become parents. Drugs have a negative effect on erectile function and make women infertile, however, there are situations when long-term drug addicts manage to produce offspring that, frankly speaking, are almost never healthy.

Children of drug addicts

Many girls mistakenly believe that if they stop using drugs when they find out they are pregnant, then the baby will not be in any danger, but this is not at all true. The harmful effects of drugs, even if the mother has given up such addictions, will threaten the unborn child for another 8-10 year period.

Apart from the disabilities with which babies are born thanks to their drug-addicted parents, they have a very unremarkable childhood. After all, he simply cannot provide the necessary care to the child, since he is constantly in search of a new dose. As a result, children born to drug addicts grow up to be drug addicts and juvenile delinquents.

According to statistics, healthy children are rarely born to drug addicted parents. In approximately 80% of parents who have indulged in drugs to varying degrees, children are born with various anomalies and developmental defects.

And even if a newborn child is in relatively good health, the consequences of the “turbulent” youth of the parents can emerge during puberty.

Physiological problems

Already from birth, such children (if they are still born) have drug addiction. He gets hooked on drugs while still in the womb. For this reason, newborn children of drug addicts often die after birth as a result.

If they survive, they will never be able to become completely healthy:

• Firstly, their body constantly requires the drug;
• Secondly, they usually have serious congenital abnormalities;
• Thirdly, their immune status is critically low, so they constantly get sick.

Speaking about the children of such mothers, it is worth saying that it is no longer possible to correct the consequences of drug harm caused by drug-addicted parents. Different drugs have different effects on the fetus and its birth, so they should be analyzed separately.
In the video about children born from drug addicts:

Heroin

Children born into the world by their mothers are already 100% drug addicts at birth and have very dismal prognoses for their future lives:

1. Quite often, such newborns die in the first hours after birth due to severe withdrawal syndrome and heroin withdrawal;
2. If the child still survives, then he is noticeably behind his peers in physical development;
3. Quite often, such children die from sudden death syndrome, which occurs in them much more often than in ordinary children.

Amphetamine

It affects the fetus similarly to cocaine; it causes vasospasm and hypoxic lesions. In addition, a pregnant woman who uses such drugs is characterized by prolonged weight loss, which cannot but affect the unborn child. Against the background of such exposure, in combination with oxygen starvation and nutritional deficiency, intrauterine fetal death often occurs.

If the newborn is lucky and does appear, then his condition will be deplorable - severe exhaustion, a constantly lethargic state, lack of appetite, refusal to breastfeed and severe weight loss.

Cocaine

A narcotic substance such as cocaine causes high blood pressure in the fetus and provokes vascular spasms. During pregnancy, cocaine is eliminated from the mother's body much more slowly, so the poisoning of mother and child will be much stronger, with all the ensuing consequences.

Cocaine exposure leads to many negative consequences:

• Against the background of vascular spasms, hypoxia and lack of nutrition of the fetus develop, which is fraught with various developmental anomalies or death;
• In addition, cocaine provokes strokes or placental abruption;
• If the child is nevertheless born alive, then he will most likely be diagnosed with congenital genitourinary pathologies.

LSD

Such drugs are considered relatively new, so the degree of their negative impact on the fetus and newborn has not been fully clarified. Judging by the latest observations, it can be said with certainty that “club drugs” provoke placental abruption, deviations in physical development, and mutational changes.

Marijuana

Many women, indulging in smoking or some other narcotic substances, do not consider them dangerous for the body of the unborn baby. A completely stupid and wrong attitude, because even ordinary cigarettes have a negative effect on the fetus, let alone herbs with a narcotic effect. And yet, what kind of children are born to those who like to smoke a joint?

Such preparations contain tetrahydrocannabinols, which enter the maternal blood in large quantities, and then into the bloodstream of the fetus. As a result, the risks of premature birth, miscarriages, intrauterine development disorders, etc. increase. Moreover, with an increase in the number of drug-containing cigarettes smoked, the degree of fetal underdevelopment increases. A child is born with pronounced underweight and a reduced head size, has visual and auditory pathologies, and suffers from cerebral palsy.

Psychological problems

A child of a drug addict's mother or father will never be born completely normal. Each baby has its own disabilities, so they are often abandoned, abandoned in maternity hospitals and joining the ranks of orphanages. The future of such babies is very deplorable, since it is impossible to find parents for them. Nobody wants to adopt a child with similar heredity and a bunch of psychophysiological problems:

• These children often have attention deficit disorder;
• Hyperactivity may also appear.

Such conditions impede the child’s ability to concentrate, disrupt the processes of memorization and learning, and provoke mental illness.

Typically, children born to drug addicts live a short life, without feeling parental warmth and affection, in deep loneliness and deprived of love. Even if a drug-addicted mother does not give up such a child, nothing good awaits him in life. A mother who is a drug addict will not be able to provide even the care, education and mental development that would have been received in an orphanage.

Born to drug addicts, they themselves become drug addicts in the future if they live to that age. Such children often suffer from drug withdrawal syndromes, similar to withdrawal, which are eliminated only by a dose of the narcotic substance.

If congenital drug addiction was weakly expressed, then being in a family of drug addicts will still lead the child to a similar end.

No matter how terrible it may sound, parents who are drug addicts often push their children to commit crimes (theft, robbery, prostitution, etc.) so that the child can get the necessary funds for their next dose. It happens that such “parents” even sell their children for pornography or into slavery.

Therefore, no matter how you look at it, such children will not have a normal, full life. He pays for the thoughtlessness of his parents with his life and health, suffering much more than the people responsible for his birth.

If people have ever used drugs, but have now stopped doing so and decided to have children, then they need to wait about 10 years for the body to finally cleanse itself of the negative effects of these substances. This time is necessary for former drug addicts to restore brain changes and eliminate regressive changes in intelligence. It will be useful for the expectant mother to cleanse her body, undergo a thorough examination and take all the necessary tests prescribed by the gynecologist.

Even after carefully planning a pregnancy, former drug addicts are likely to produce an unhealthy child. Therefore, a pregnant woman needs to be constantly under the supervision of an obstetrician-gynecologist and carefully follow all prescriptions.

From my experience with pregnant women, almost everyone experiences or even experiences fear about the health of their unborn children. This is also facilitated by observation in the antenatal clinic, when from the early stages of pregnancy they look for pathology in the unborn baby, but do not say what can be done to minimize the risk of pathologies.

We, parents, should be more interested in what we can ensure that the baby is born as healthy as possible. What actions of ours harm the baby?

This is a huge topic for research. In the issues I will bring you the results of research by two outstanding people:

1. Professor of Homeopathy, Dr. George Vithoulkas (Greece);
2. Michelle Oden is a natural childbirth doctor (UK).

The health of a child depends on three factors:

1. Heredity.

"The apple never falls far from the tree". Our genetic information is contained in DNA. At the moment of conception, male and female cells merge, which carry genetic information from the parents. In this regard, we need to remember the following: the manifestation of any hereditary disease depends on the interaction of two factors: genetic defect and environment. More than 60% of spontaneous abortions in the first trimester are caused by hereditary diseases. (Question: is it necessary to continue the pregnancy if there are signs of a threat of miscarriage in the early stages???).

Medical history of parents, i.e. past illnesses and previously prescribed medications. Infectious agents and medications have a damaging (teratogenic) effect on the child.

Intrauterine development can be divided into stages, depending on the baby’s sensitivity to damaging (teratogenic) factors.

• The first period lasts 18 days from the moment of conception until implantation (attachment to the wall of the uterus). A distinctive feature of this period is the great compensatory and adaptive capabilities of the developing embryo. If a large number of cells are damaged, the embryo dies, but if individual cells are damaged, further development is not disrupted.
• The second period is embryonic (18-60 days after fertilization). At this time, the baby is most sensitive to damaging (teratogenic) factors!!! Gross malformations are formed (malformations of the central nervous system, congenital heart defects, cleft lip, malformations of the gastrointestinal tract).
• The third period is the fertile period. During this period, developmental defects do not occur, but when exposed to damaging factors, underdevelopment or functional immaturity of organs occurs.

Teratogenic factors:

• Medicines and chemicals (each pregnant woman takes about 4 types of medications during pregnancy, often without reason).
• Ionizing radiation.
• Infections suffered during pregnancy in an acute form (or contact with a patient): cytomegalovirus infection, herpes types 1 and 2, erythema infectiosum, rubella, syphilis, toxoplasmosis.
• Metabolic disorders.
• Bad habits of a pregnant woman: alcoholism, smoking, etc.

3. The spiritual and emotional state of the parents at the time of conception.

Dr. George Vithoulkas, fragment of a speech addressed to homeopathic doctors at the National Academy of Homeopathy, May 1998. Translation by Maria Tolstoukhova.

How to give birth to healthy children?

We must preserve future children and raise them in love if we want to restore the human race
The question I want to discuss today is formulated rather vaguely:

How to raise healthy children in modern society? What conditions are needed for this; what we can do as homeopathic doctors, what advice we can give; What should parents know and what is their role and responsibility in order to give birth to a healthy child?

I want to emphasize from the outset that these ideas are simple hypotheses based on research and conversations with thousands of parents I have encountered over the last forty years that I have been practicing homeopathy. In those cases where I had the opportunity to get to know the whole family closely, I could easily determine how the parents felt at the moment of conception. I hope that the following hypothesis will be studied by various scientific experts and they will either confirm or refute it.

The question I have asked over the years when comparing the general health of people of different nationalities and races (and I have had the opportunity to treat patients of different nationalities and ethnicities and compare the health of their children) is this: why are certain ethnic groups and nationalities so so-called Third World countries tend to have better mental health than people from Western countries, despite the fact that the latter live in better sanitary and generally more comfortable conditions?

Why were the children of these nationalities happier, despite living in poverty?

What fundamental factors determine a child's health?

The health of a child usually depends on three factors:

1. Heredity
2. Medical history of parents, i.e. past illnesses and previously prescribed medications
3. Spiritual and emotional state of parents at the time of conception

The factors that will be considered in this discussion mainly relate to the third condition and the extent to which it affects the health of the unborn child.

We will consider the following factors:

1. Teratogenesis("birth of a freak", from the Greek "teras", meaning "monster") as a result of exposure to chemicals and drugs. An example is thalidomide and depleted uranium in Iraq.

We can confidently say that chemicals to which parents were exposed before conception are the cause of many cases of teratogenesis. Children were born with missing or deformed body parts.

2. In addition, another fact is well known: if a person is completely or partially disabled, the body, as a rule, tries to compensate for the existing disability in other ways. For example, if blood circulation is impaired, collateral circulation occurs in the body, bypassing the problem area. People who have lost their upper limbs develop the ability to do with their feet what they used to do with their hands, and a person who has lost their sight develops more acute tactile and auditory sensations, and so on. We observe similar changes in our own body if we have lost a certain organ or function, and the body tries to compensate for this loss by developing other functions.

The main question we ask today is: what happens if a person loses certain functions on a spiritual or emotional level?

Anyone who practices homeopathy knows that in addition to physical organs, our body has “functions” or organs that determine our spiritual and emotional level.

The problem is this: are cases of teratogenesis possible on a spiritual or emotional level? Is it possible to give birth to a monster that, when it grows up, will spread corruption, terror, or even death because it lacks some important element on these levels? And if so, why? Is it possible to prevent such an outcome?

If we observe modern society and especially the Western world, we are faced with a truly inexplicable and frightening phenomenon. For example, a ten-year-old child kills his classmates with a gun. There is no need to mention all the crimes that are being committed today in Western countries and which are all so well known to us.

From the psychiatric examination of these individuals, we found that they lacked certain spiritual and emotional functions. If you delve into the soul of a monstrous rapist who kills and buries his victims, he eventually admits that he was trying to evoke certain emotions in order to gain satisfaction. Are these people carrying death within them the only ones who should be held accountable for their actions? To what extent does the state, society or family contribute to such violence?

Crimes of this kind, although they are committed only in states of extreme mental disorder, cause suffering to millions of people in Western countries. We get sadists, masochists, people with sexual perversions, people who hate others, people who live in depression all their lives, people who feel that they are worthless, people who constantly live with the feeling that what will happen to them something bad, people who express their feelings only through violence, etc.

On the other hand, we have children who are highly developed mentally, but extremely immature emotionally. For example, boys aged 15-16 are the best students in their class; they are so smart that they are able to take classes in high school. But when we evaluate their development in other areas, we realize that they are completely emotionally immature. It is as if all the emotional organs that are necessary to communicate with family, friends or society are missing and therefore they are unable to enter into loving relationships.

I also draw your attention to the cases that we all encounter on a daily basis in Western society. Look at scientists who work on a particular project and devote themselves entirely to it, ignoring personal relationships and attachments to others. I remember one doctor confessed to me: “I divorced my husband because he was too good a scientist! The only thing that interested him was viruses, the microscope and the behavior of viruses. He came home only to eat, and immediately after dinner he sat down to books. "I endured for 10 years, but I couldn't take it anymore. I didn't deserve as much attention as viruses."

This too-good scientist suffers from a lack of deeper emotional functions. He has overdeveloped a part of his intelligence that has replaced a certain emotional deficiency, and tries to compensate for such limitations by striving for discovery and success, which makes him feel important. This situation is especially often observed among ambitious people with highly developed intellects who are not interested in anything other than their science. They can have sex periodically, but they do it mechanically. And if they are in a group, then in order to have fun, they need to get drunk or take drugs.

There are women today who don't know what it means to "fall in love."

I was shocked by the behavior of a very famous and intelligent person. This is former US Foreign Secretary Henry Kissinger, also known as the scriptwriter of all modern wars. When the US was losing the Vietnam War, he ordered the bombing of unarmed urban populations, killing 300,000 innocent civilians.

Years later, when an American journalist pressed Kissinger to clarify this during an interview, it turned out that Kissinger simply did not understand the consequences of his actions.

My question is this: is this brilliant man, who ruled the world for some time, a complete person with a stable psyche, or is he a monster? How many of us could give the same order, even if we were talking not about 300,000, but about just one person? Would you order the bombing of civilians just to prove that your policy is correct?

Was Hitler, with his inherent hatred and intolerance, a whole person or a monster? And Stalin, with his betrayals and the cruelty with which he dealt with millions of suspected compatriots, was he healthy from an emotional point of view or was he a monster?

So what happened to our society that politicians with such emotional flaws rose to the top of power?

Can these individuals be classified as cases of teratogenicity on an emotional or spiritual level? And what factors cause this type of teratogenesis?

One can easily imagine what will happen if heartless, callous and emotionally limited scientists and unprincipled amoral careerist politicians join forces for the “good” of society.

In this case, a brilliant scientist will probably appear, to whom politicians will promise prestige and fame if he invents a “smart bomb” to destroy their enemies, and he will certainly carry out their immoral order.

The reason the scientist does this is because he does not understand what he is getting into because he does not have certain functions on the spiritual-emotional level and therefore does not worry about committing a crime. He does not see what destruction it will bring, and he is exclusively occupied with the fact of the “brilliant” discovery.

" Child of Love" will never be involved in such projects, no matter what reward is offered to him.

We, as healers, are asked to explain what is really happening and why such monsters are born, full-fledged physically, but not possessing certain functions on the spiritual and emotional level, the absence of which can be dangerous not only for themselves, but also for the entire society .

Why is such inferiority dangerous? Because the body has the ability to compensate for missing elements by replacing them with other emotions or skills on an emotional level in order to achieve a kind of balance. A person may not like or sympathize with others, but he can do things for which others will admire or praise him, giving him love and admiration. However, he himself does not experience feelings of love.

Let's give another example. A young girl considers herself ugly. To make up for this deficiency, and also because of the ridicule she may be subjected to, she develops intelligence, becomes an excellent student in school and is admired by her classmates. This is how the girl achieves balance, graduates from school with all A's and enters university, studies biology, spends all her time studying, graduates from the Faculty of Biology with honors and, in the end, devotes herself entirely to this science. At 27, she is already a university professor.

And now she is 28, 30, 32 or 36 years old, and she does not know what love is. This means that the part of the body that is responsible for these emotions is not used or is completely suppressed.

With such a flaw, this woman will most likely behave unnaturally. She will deliberately create abnormal situations in order to gain feelings of love or sexual arousal. Anyone can imagine what these situations are like. This woman is aware that others react “differently” to situations that are unfamiliar to her, and cannot answer the questions “what does a person in love feel?”, “Why don’t I fall in love?”, “What do people feel?” and so on.

Of course, the list of such deviations is endless.

The very structure of our society gives birth to big and small monsters. We encounter cases of "teratogenesis" on the emotional and intellectual levels because we ignore the laws of nature.

The question is: to what extent can the emotional state of the parents at the time of conception cause such teratogenesis?

And now I would like to offer my hypothesis, which is the result of research and based on experience, conversations and treatment of families of different nationalities.

I hope, as I said, that this hypothesis will soon be tested by respected scientists in the laboratory.

I will begin with the assumption that both the sperm and the egg are inseparable from the overall condition of the individual and contain the structural code of the individual on all levels: physical, emotional and spiritual.

The sperm and egg carry the imprint of the psychological state of two people who were united at the moment of conception. Their union will be successful only if they dissolve in each other and are in agreement and harmony with each other at the moment when they made love.

The more disagreements and discrepancies between them, the less strong their union will be. If this distance and opposition is great, the child may be born with a split personality and have two different but equally valid points of view. Something like schizophrenia.

Of course, a situation is also possible when people are suitable for each other in terms of sex, on a physical level, but are very different from each other emotionally and mentally.

CONCEPT OPTION I

If we use symbols, the moment of merging of two people who truly love each other can be represented as an ideal cycle that symbolizes the basic state of lovers - satisfaction, completeness and harmony on the emotional and spiritual levels. In an ideal union, one cycle is superimposed on another, resulting in an entirely new cycle.

Ideally, the egg and sperm are in a state of absolute balance and peace at all levels. We have a perfect union of two people who feel that they complement each other and are happy with each other.

As a result of this union, a new human being appears - a child, who will have the best traits of both parents. Such children are guided, first of all, by love, and they are absolutely harmonious.

Of course, this is all relative and is influenced by two other factors: heredity and the medical history of the parents. I also believe that if you examine the eggs and sperm of such people, their chemical structure will be different from others who do not meet these conditions.

CONCEPT OPTION II

In option II we are dealing with a new cell from which a child will be born, which has lost its harmony and carries within itself the imprint emotional depression of parents or strong emotional conflict.

These children are incomplete, they will always feel like they are missing something and will never achieve harmony. They will never become a homogeneous and perfect circle, unlike children of love.

There is a third option for conception, as a result of which children are born from aggressive parents, and the cell is in a state of extreme excitement or even aggression.

CONCEPT OPTION III

The union of two people in a state of excitement.

Such children try to assert themselves through violence and extreme actions because they do not feel love and compassion for anyone. Their need for love pushes them to do the opposite of what they would normally do to earn love.

Of course, between these extreme cases there are endless modifications, states and phases.

The main question is whether parents are in options I, II or III before sexual intercourse, and the extent to which these options affect the health of the unborn child.

Let's start by analyzing option I so we can compare it with the other two options.

To achieve option I, both individuals must reach a state in which their own “I” would fade into the background as much as possible and allow them to dissolve in each other during sexual contact. Nature has provided us with an easy way to achieve Option I by giving us the ability to fall in love, which can best be described by the Greek word "eros." What is eros? This is a man's strong desire to connect with a woman or a woman's desire to connect with a man. This is the desire to become one with the object of adoration and dissolve in it. This desire can only be satisfied through absolute unity, which is strengthened by erotic union.

The result of this state will be a feeling of complete satisfaction and absolute happiness.

Then, thanks to this call of nature and the long-awaited achievement of the desired, two people achieve a state of complete satisfaction. Deep satisfaction and happiness are achieved through acceptance of each other, since people do not interfere with getting closer to each other, either physically or mentally. In such complete emotional fusion, the consciousness of one's own self practically does not exist. Thus, a state of absolute peace, contentment and harmony is the highest point of such union. This is precisely the moment when, by nature's design, two people can "give" the best part of themselves, so that their new creation, the child, will have the best qualities of both parents and will be as perfect as possible.

Such a child of love will grow up to be a balanced, unpretentious and happy person. In communicating with others, he will be natural and devoid of any complexes, deviations are extremely rare, and happiness is easily achievable. Most of them will be able to fall in love easily and at the right time.

But such a model of love is very difficult to implement in modern society, where people are looking for an easy and quick orgasm. There are "schools" in America today that try to "teach" poor clients how to have an orgasm!!! Naturally, this is an absolute failure, not of these “schools,” but of our society, in which such schools are in demand. This was the result of the sexual revolution and uncontrolled sexual permissiveness.

In order for a person to experience the state of eros, physical contact must be difficult to achieve and self-restraint is necessary. Moreover, after the first acquaintance and during courtship, you need to give free rein to your imagination. A couple in a state of pure love or eros enjoys each other, experiences strong positive emotions, cares for each other, and is in an optimal emotional state. When the moment of physical intimacy finally arrives, it is a sacred moment of childbirth that will result in the birth of the best possible child. In modern society we usually kill such children of love!

One thing is clear that future parents should keep in mind:

The sperm and egg carry the spiritual and emotional state of the parents at the moment of conception. If sex happens too early, all the magic will be lost and the couple won't have time to get to know each other's best qualities.

Only children of love inherit from their parents their best physical, spiritual and emotional traits and qualities.

It is in this way, with the help of eros, that nature shows us the right moment to give birth to healthy children, so humanity is constantly renewed. But in Western society, with enviable tenacity, we follow a different path, the path of degeneration.

Unfortunately, the way of life in most Western societies makes the situations that are best suited for procreation impossible. In a civilized society, instead of love, pride and selfishness prevail, so a natural erotic union is practically impossible.

If such people (children of love) became political leaders, military men or scientists, they would undoubtedly make more correct and “healthy” decisions instead of those that are being made now, and which in many cases cannot be called human at all.

But such a child of love will not find a place among the leaders of our modern society. He will never be appointed head of the army, head of state, or head of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs. The current social conditions will immediately destroy it.

Those chosen for these positions in our terrible society of commercial globalization and war belong to options II or III.

I'll give a few examples to illustrate what I mean. If a young, unmarried girl falls in love with a man and becomes pregnant, her parents will likely decide that the child cannot and should not be born. “You are not married”, “You have not earned your living”, etc. We believe that we know better than nature what needs to be done, and we come to the conclusion that this child is not needed. In such cases, parents turn away from their children instead of helping them.

Of course, there are no statistics that could confirm the number of abortions of love children, but we know that they amount to thousands every year. However, here I would like to point out that there is a difference between children of love and children born as a result of casual sexual intercourse and fleeting passion. The difference between them is huge. It is about finding a true match or half for each other to find harmony on all levels. In our society, the possibility of such a meeting seems utopian. But it was we ourselves, through our behavior, who created such conditions in our deformed society that such a possibility became utopian.

Today we see that girls aged 15-16 years are already having sexual relations. What idea do these children have of the unique feeling of love? Absolutely none. Typically their emotions range from indifference to disgust. And then abortion usually follows.

In medicine, we often encounter cases of couples when the woman has already had several abortions before. After people get married, despite the fact that they are suitable for each other, pregnancy does not occur. They are worried that they will not be able to have children, and now, two or three years after the wedding, the most important question for them is whether the woman is pregnant or not. In such cases, when the husband is worried, he has his own fears, his own financial problems, and the woman is worried that she will not be able to get pregnant, it is quite natural that they cannot lose themselves in each other during the erotic act. In such a nervous state, conception is almost impossible.

This may seem like pure theory, but we know that when a couple seeks treatment and receives the right medicine, the patient usually says: “Now I have calmed down,” “Now I am firmly on my feet,” “I have found myself,” “I feel that I am healthy”, etc.

This calmness is a healthier state in which conception is possible.

This is the reason why homeopathy is so successful in such cases.

Now it should be said that this gift of nature, eros, does not last long. It is strong in the first two or three years, when the parents are still young, energetic and innocent. This is the best time to conceive and give birth to healthy children.

I will give an example of people belonging to option II. Consider the very common situation where a young woman falls madly in love and the affair ends in pregnancy. However, she has an abortion and also breaks off the relationship with her lover. After some time, she has a new romance, but she is not as passionate as the first time (and will never be as passionate again), then several more relationships follow, and finally, at the age of 26, she decides that she has found the “right” person, and marries him. What did this young woman do? She has suppressed part of her emotional world and now cannot become free and achieve the state of absolute satisfaction that option I requires. As a result of this course of events, the woman eventually becomes ill and loses the opportunity to return to this option altogether.

As a result of this behavior, which is imposed by the pressures of today's society, our most important and deepest emotions are suppressed and sacrificed for profit and self-esteem.

In trying to truly help patients, we look at them from a deeper and more humane point of view, and we know how many beautiful girls have “sacrificed themselves” trying to find a suitable husband, and now live in a golden cage, which leads to illness. This causes a syndrome that I emphasize to my students. I called it "marriage syndrome", and it has very specific symptoms.

When the basic instincts are ignored or suppressed, and selfishness and profit predominate, one can easily imagine with what emotions or calculating considerations young people think about marriage.

The children born from them will be deprived of the fundamental feeling of love, compassion for others, incapable of creativity, will not be able to give love, and more importantly, will not be able to experience the feeling of happiness that you experience when you help others rather than receive something from them. These thoughts seem very simple, but they are the basis of a healthy existence and yet they are completely ignored or underestimated in modern society.

In extreme cases of option III, conception occurs with strong arousal of a man and suppression of a woman. In this case, we are dealing with situations where a couple has sex in an excited or irritated state.

The husband returns from work in a bad mood due to problems at work, and also drunk, and since he sees that his wife is talking with a neighbor, he experiences an attack of jealousy to the point of madness, drags his wife into the house and begins to beat her, she screams and cries, and it all ends in sex. Under such circumstances a child is born. It will bear the imprint of the state of the parents’ cells at the time of conception.

What children will be born from different options?

Children of Option II can become excellent scientists, while children of Option III can, in extreme cases, become criminals. All these emotionally limited people will spend their entire lives searching for the true love that their parents lacked at the time of conception. However, they will seek it in different ways and at different levels. To achieve harmony and find the missing element or develop missing functions, they need to achieve mastery and gain everyone's admiration in order to restore balance.

For individuals born from option III, the basic element is violence, and we see that they try to succeed and achieve success through violence. And here you need to ask yourself how strong the heredity factor is and how important the condition of the parents is before conception. Let's give another example - a young girl was cheerful, healthy (good heredity), but after experiencing several failures, she lost her youth and freshness, and then, after constant disappointments, she gradually lost all her emotions.

In our society of deceit and sexual permissiveness, young people quickly reach that saturation point when nothing impresses them anymore. A 17-18 year old girl already has several relationships that have brought her disappointment. How does she feel after this? Emptiness. At the age of 28-29, she marries a “suitable” person according to convenience, then they have a child. What will it be like? The child bears the imprint of the experiences of both parents, but the main thing is that he does not know how to give love and will become a sadist in order to replenish emotions and experience feelings that are inaccessible to him in other ways.

Therefore, we came to the conclusion that, in order to be healthy, society needs children born from first love. Children whose appearance should be avoided are those “monsters” who are born out of calculation and other considerations.

I will go ahead and say a few more words because we in Western society find this fundamental theory very difficult to understand. The reason is that we are technologically advanced and have a great ability to misinterpret ideas and ignore other opinions if we find them unpleasant or do not serve our interests, so we tend to believe that we know best.

This "I know" attitude separates us. If I say “I know” and others do the same from the selfish position of “I know better”, then I will not be able to hear someone else’s point of view, and we will always be at a distance from each other. This is exactly what is happening to young people today, but to a much greater extent.

Such egoism prevents unification and does not allow us to dissolve in each other. Because a woman thinks that a man is suitable for her not because “he attracts me from a physical and spiritual point of view,” but because “he occupies a high position in society, he is wealthy,” and gives other similar reasons why she should marry marry him, they will have problems that will lead to “marriage syndrome”. This means that because of the decision she made in the absence of attraction, the woman will suffer many ailments in the long run in order to avoid sexual contact that she does not really like.

Therefore, children born in such unnatural conditions can become bank directors, scientists or any other people who act only out of calculation and whom we consider respectable members of society, but in fact they are cold egoists without soul, emotions and heart.

The Big Secret to Healthy Children

There is one condition that allows you to raise healthy children, and I think that this idea will seem progressive to you. I have often observed, and not only in theory, that the healthiest children on a spiritual and emotional level are born to parents who truly believe in God. Not those who say “I believe” but have many doubts, but those who really rely on God and serve him; those who can say, “Thy will be done.” This connection with God - a truly living connection based on trust - gives people a feeling of complete peace, tranquility, harmony and deep satisfaction.

These people have truly eradicated their self-interest. Of course, they are few in number and their percentage in society is small. These people are happy, cheerful and contented, even if they do not have enough money for the basic necessities. They do not live in luxury or even comfort, and yet they are so happy and cheerful that we look at them with envy and would like to be as happy as they are, even if we ourselves did not have enough money for food or would live in comfortable conditions.

This condition complete rest gives them the opportunity to open up during sexual contact, to dissolve in each other due to the fact that the “ego” is completely suppressed, since a person who truly believes has no self-interest. A phrase from a work by an English poet comes to mind: “They sigh without loving, and are so poor in soul. Am I really like that?” [line from Rupert Chawner Brooke's (1887-1915) sonnet "I said I splendidly loved you; it"s not true" — approx. translation].

With these simple words, the poet absolutely correctly conveys the anxieties of modern man. The portrait of a modern person is characterized by doubt and insecurity, since the “scientist” in us says that we need to question absolutely everything and never be sure of anything. He makes you doubt because he himself does not believe in anything.

I have watched a lot of the children of those people who fear only God, and they amazed me with their simple wisdom and ability to love. None of them became great leaders or successful politicians, but they were very happy children. All of them are characterized by happiness, fun and the ability to communicate. I also noticed that they rarely get sick.

In the end, a doctor should not think about how to raise a talented scientist, a successful politician or a good businessman, but about how to give a Human to society.

Homeopathy, due to its ability to restore balance in a person, will play a huge role in achieving this goal in the future.

We can draw the following conclusions:

• In order for the process of renewal of humanity to continue, we must pay attention to spiritual and emotional state of parents at the moment of conception.
• Young people who have sexual intercourse at an early age not only ruin the best thing that can happen to them, but also lose the ability to fall in love later.
• Lectures should be held in schools to explain to children that love is not an orgasm, but a divine gift. I am afraid that the so-called sex education in our schools, as it is taught today, will corrupt these already corrupted children even more.
• The age at which a person can fall in love is 20-23 years old, and until this age you should limit yourself and not be guided by sexual desires if you want to find a true life partner and the missing part, your half.
• It is impossible to find a true soul mate or companion if you chase sexual pleasures, which only lead to disappointment. If young people meet their true life partner at a later stage in life, they will not be able to recognize him.
• Our society will continue to deteriorate if we follow the wrong emotional path.
• Parents should do their best support those young people who carry children of love within them, because these are the kind of children who should live.

Head of rehabilitation programs SOLUTION Experience - 14 years

Such a child, having tried a psychostimulant once, can immediately become dependent. Only strict control of relatives and prevention of the use of prohibited substances can save him. In addition to repeating the fate of the parents of drug addicts, there are other dangers that everyone should be aware of in order to protect future generations from the drug nightmare.

Can drug addicted parents have healthy children?

Drug addicts themselves believe that their addiction will not affect the child if the pregnant woman stops using psychostimulants a month or several weeks before giving birth. This is a deep misconception, since the toxins accumulated in the body have already done their job, all the systems and organs of the baby have received their dose of poisoning. After appearing in this world, due to congenital intoxication, he will have many unpleasant hours and days. What awaits children born from drug addicts is reflected in the whole list of pathologies.

1. Congenital physiological defects.
2. Mental retardation.
3. Withdrawal due to withdrawal of the drug that the baby’s body received in the womb.
4. Restless sleep and impaired reflexes, including sucking.
5. Mental health problems.

These deviations are statistically observed in 80% of children of drug addicted parents. The remaining 20% ​​do not have any visible pathologies at birth, but this does not mean that they will not occur in the future.

A dormant craving for drugs has already settled in the baby’s blood forever, which can become active at any moment. Mother and father should keep in mind that drug addiction is a common cause of stillbirth, miscarriage, and difficult pregnancy.

Only recovered drug addicts who have undergone an examination that will show the absence of any psychostimulants in the blood can give birth to a healthy child. After the body is cleansed, you need to wait at least eight months before conceiving. Only by fulfilling these conditions can one hope for the birth of a healthy baby without a predisposition to drug addiction.

Video about the problem “Drug addiction” from Oleg Boldyrev

Physiological problems

The level of damage to the baby’s health depends on the stage of drug addiction and the duration of use of psychostimulants by parents. Those who did not limit the use of toxic substances during conception, pregnancy, and the prenatal period will face tragic consequences:

• possible death of the child from withdrawal symptoms in the first hours of life;
• immunodeficiency due to the weakening of the baby’s body;
• congenital pathologies, including mutations;
• hereditary craving for drugs.

However, it is impossible to stop these negative processes. Children born to drug addicts are essentially hostage to their parents' addictions. All their lives they will pay with their health for their father’s and mother’s desire to be high.

Their main health problems are deformities, an unbalanced psyche, dystrophy, and frequent illnesses due to weak immunity.

As children grow up in a family of drug addicts, they do not receive proper care. This aggravates their situation; the survival rate of infants in such families is at a minimum. Weak newborns die in the first six months. Those who are physically stronger, in adolescence, during a hormonal explosion, may feel a craving for psychostimulants and take an irreparable step - try drugs. The life expectancy of the descendants of drug addicts is lower than that of other people.

Psychological abnormalities

Due to multiple pathologies, children of drug addicts are unwanted by their parents, they are abandoned by relatives, they are rarely adopted and taken into guardianship. Their fate is unenviable in all respects. The most common cases are the abandonment of such babies in the maternity hospital, the worst option is being left without care for a long time or on the street, cruel treatment, or murder. In each such case, the babies will face a painful death.

A child abandoned by his mother ends up in an orphanage, where some constantly feel inferior and grow up downtrodden. Others try to take revenge on people for cruelty and become criminals. In childhood, their common diagnoses are attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADD). The behavior and intelligence of such children differs from their peers.

1. They cannot concentrate and complete tasks.
2. They do not absorb new information.
3. Their thinking process is disrupted.
4. Speech is slurred.

Against the background of these deviations, as a rule, serious mental illnesses develop.

Growing up in a family of drug addicts, the child is also unhappy and exposed to the same risks. Sooner or later he will receive the first dose and end his life from an overdose, suicide or other reasons why drug addicts die.

Variation of problems with different drugs

Certain narcotic substances affect the body of the fetus and newborn differently. The specific effects depend on how potent the drug used by the mother is and how long she took it. It is necessary to understand the general patterns of the influence of narcotic substances on the fetus and newborn.

1. The child is born with withdrawal syndrome and suffers from withdrawal symptoms just like the mother. He screams, sneezes anxiously, has decreased muscle tone and increased body temperature.
2. A pregnant woman develops a dangerous pathology called fetal hypoxia, as a result of which children are born with impaired respiratory functions and central nervous system disorders.
3. Miscarriages, premature births, and stillbirths often occur.
4. Child developmental delay begins with intrauterine development, it is expressed in a decrease in brain volume and pathological changes in the structure of the body.

Heroin. The risk of infant death immediately after birth is very high. If the child survives, then he may die at any time in the future, since sudden death syndrome occurs more often in children of heroin addicts than in newborns from healthy parents.

Amphetamine. Children of amphetamine addicts are deprived of a good appetite, since the substance causes the mother to refuse food and rest. As a result, the fetus is exhausted, the newborn child is so weak that he refuses to suckle and does not feel hungry due to amphetamine poisoning. Intrauterine fetal death occurs due to lack of oxygen and nutritional components from the placenta.

Cocaine. It is an organic drug and is eliminated from the body naturally, but during pregnancy there are difficulties in this process. Slow removal of the toxin leads to poisoning of the fetus and the mother’s body. The main risk is the death of the baby in the womb due to vasospasm or the appearance of pathological changes in internal organs, the genitourinary system, as well as premature detachment of the baby's place.

LSD. According to medical observations, this drug provokes the occurrence of congenital deformities and mutations. Children are born with extra or missing limbs, irregular head shape, and disfigured appearance. Placental abruption and fetal death are possible.

Marijuana and hashish. It is believed that these cannabis derivatives do not affect the fetus. But doctors warn against mistakes and point out the specific harm from smoking “dope.” The most common undesirable consequence is miscarriage, in second place is pathology of intrauterine development of the fetus, in third place is the birth of a child with cerebral palsy. If the mother abused herbal drugs of the smoking type, then there is a possibility that the baby will be born with impaired hearing, vision, and reduced mental potential.

Socialization of children born of drug addicts is difficult. They have many problems in relationships with peers. They start in kindergarten and continue through school and student groups. Complexes prevent them from building a successful career. Many of them give up on their lives in advance and leave it of their own free will.